I am a new member of the group. I am writing a story and want to learn more about what I think you'd call fraternization rules in police departments. I'm writing specifically a story about San Francisco police, present day, officers who are of different ranks who want to date one another but realize it would have to be kept completely quiet. I'd be interested to know of other stories people have written along these lines, where I might go to research this type of thing, etc. I know it happens in real life, know it's possible, and would like to know the problems they'd be up against in real life. I'd have to know that before trying to figure out how to avoid them.