Setting: San Francisco, circa 2000. 17 year old male has his first time with a 20 year old pretty experienced female. She comes on to him, if that makes a difference. He's not totally clueless, but obviously first time is a first time.
I'd like some perspectives on what men think/feel/do/whatever the first time and also from any women who've had sex with a male virgin while they themselves are not virgins. I have no personal experience with either, so thus my research.