Every source I've found says that American teens would still use fag or faggot as a deorgatory term for a gay man, including someone their own age. To me, this sounds so dated (and incredibly British!) so I wondered if anyone can confirm or deny that this is still the case? Or if not, what word or phrase would sound more natural coming out of the mouth of a modern North American teen (say seventeen) meaning to be insulting and deorgatory? Thanks!