Googled: female/male virginity; proving female/male virginity and associated terms
Setting: Current timeline, but it isn't really that important, because information doesn't have to be modern
So I have a male character than must be proven to be a virgin. So I was wondering if there are urban legends, folklore, relics, or beliefs about being able to determine if a man is a virgin. I googled up several, but I'm trying to cover all my bases (and information was scant).
I'm also looking for ways a woman can be proven as a virgin---without involving actually examining the woman. I know there are 'trials' that a woman can go through to prove her virginity, but I'm having a difficult time finding out what these 'trials' were. I'm specifically interested on those from UK, France, Rome etc. (OK, the western world), but beliefs from anywhere is just OK.
Thanks in advance for your help!