- The mother was not abusive in any way. The father is leaving her (without her knowledge) because of her family background.
- Would the father's family having government connections make this any easier (if it's allowed at all)?
- The male is in his early to mid twenties.
ETA: The name change is solely to make sure that they're not easily found. They were not married when the child was born. I guess you could almost consider it a kidnapping, but not really since the father has custody to begin with.