Little Details

Setting: modern day Italia
Research Conducted:
Googled "insults ftm discrimination", tried looking for pejorative synonyms to "ftm" in the Urban Dictionary, checked some trans-gender LJ communities.


Hi!
I want to write a fic with a trans man (ie a female-to-male transsexual person). This character is Italian and a member of a mafia family. This is manga mafia we're talking about, so they're practically teddy bears compared to the real deal, but I'm planning to write them as conservative and more or less sexist and trans-phobic - some of them paternalistic, others just plain hostile and offensive.
The character would be a young adult in the fic, and the fic will include passages of his childhood. As a young adult he's dressing like a man and binding, but he never got an operation or any medication. Even as a child he's always had a temper and been violent and aggressive.

My problem is that I don't know what derogative words or comments are typically used against male transsexuals. Neither in English nor in Italian.
And I'd like to have some input from people who have experience with it, rather than just make it up and get it all ridiculously wrong, or somehow making it turn out offensive.


So basically, I'm looking for insults, slurs, insulting or disrespectful comments or gestures aimed at a girl who acts like a boy/ a teenage girl who claims she's a guy (both things that the character's peers would say and things that adults/ his elders would say). Especially the crude and vulgar stuff.

Anything would be helpful, even if it's not specifically Italian, though of course Italian words would be awesome.
Thank you!

I'm an American fan of the TV series "Lewis", and I want to put some references to the Oxford-Cambridge Boat Race into a fanfiction story.  For those who are unfamiliar with the show, DS James Hathaway is a Cambridge graduate (theology) and was on the university rowing team.  Cambridge won the Boat Race that year.  He is now in his early 30s and works as a homicide cop in Oxford.

I have a million questions.  I have looked at the official Race website, and it has a lot of helpful information, but much of what I need to know is cultural rather than factual.  And to be clear, I want to write about the Boat Race as it is now (last few years), not back when James would have been at university.  I don't care about specific details of the actual race.  For example, if I set this in 2012, I may not mention the protest swimmer, or may choose to assume that my story takes place in an alternative timeline in which the incident didn't happen.  Or that Oxford won.

I assume that somewhere in the back of his wardrobe, James has a light blue blazer.  Under what circumstances would it be appropriate/likely for him to wear it?  How would people react if he wore it somewhere in Oxford?  (Off-duty, obviously)  I know that in the U.S., sports rivalries can be expressed in ways ranging from good-natured teasing to out-and-out violence.  I know that the latter can happen in the U.K. with football/soccer, but what about rowing?

Is it a class sport?  Would working-class people gather in their favorite pub to watch the Race on TV?  Might there be a gathering of Cambridge people in exile in Oxford?  Might Oxford movers-and-shakers of the sort that Chief Superintendent Innocent socializes with have a Boat Race party in Oxford?  I know the race is in London, which is a reasonable drive/bus ride from Oxford.  Do people tend to travel down to watch it in person?

His partner, DI Lewis knows that James "used to row a bit".  If any of his other colleagues on Oxfordshire police force know about James's Cambridge Blue, how are they likely to feel about it?  (Some of them already resent him because they think he's posh and over-educated.)

And if those aren't enough questions, I'm also looking for answers to the ones I don't know enough to ask.

ETA: I just have to say how amazed I am at the wealth of knowledge in this comm.  I received far more information than I dared hope for.  Thank you all!