Okay, I'm looking for a city in the U.S.A. where not only same sex shennanigans are a common part of the scenery, but also where fries and gravy are a "normal" food in restaurants. Preferably cities that are Northern enough to have snow and ice during some part of the winter. The smaller the city the better (though I know small cities are usually more closed minded about same sex couples and strip clubs, so this isn't a "must have" but someplace small with maybe only one or two gay clubs would be great!)
EDIT: Wow, okay, you guys are amazingly fast! Thanks so much! I think it's been decided to go with Northampton, Massachusetts, especially since there already is a diner there with it on the menue and has a thriving local gay community.
Thank you EVERYONE, this was amazing!